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I am listening to a podcast about having difficult conversatons, I need to have one with the guy next door about his fence but I am avoiding it I guess telling myself that I will have the conversation when I see him and not that I will not go round to his house.  I am no fan of any kind of confrontation, apparently I am a people pleaser and thats why I won't confront the guy

The talking to him if I bump into him is not going too well as I have seen him twice in 6 months and to be honest I am actively avoiding him which makes things worsts I guess, not having the chat is bad enough but wasting energy on trying to avoid him is silly  

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