on my own

I have heard it a few times this covid restrictions situation that it must be hard to go through it if you live on your own I assume they mean it must me harder than if you live with someone well I know I am stating the obvious in that if you are going through it on with others, a child or partner it depends on the sitution.

If you have a child you have the worry that they might catch it at home or from fiends and this might be exacerbated if they have a health issue. Children need to be entertained fed clothed which can be a burden a financial one, they will have questions that you can't answer such as why can't I see my friends outside school but I can in it which are impossible to answer and are bonkers and these issues are caused by people in charge of this situation but basically are part of the problem.

If you live someone and the relationship is a good one then thats fine you can help each other through and of course is much better than living on your own and I guess some are that lucky and it would be interesting to know how many but this is just a symptom of the unfairness of life.

You could be in a situation where the relationship has had problems in the past and this covid restrictions thing can force you to confront these issues more than before and it would be very diffiult to tolerate this maybe and I guess this compares to how some who live alone might feel whereas others who live alone might love the fact and this covid thing could increase their love of being on their own has reaffirmed their desire to live on their own.

I guess there are comprimises here like getting a pet of some sort, getting a pet to overcome covid restrictions might be a bit extremme the dog is not only for xmas thing.

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